How to know your sugar relationship is ending?

‘Busy’

It is easy to say that you’re busy in order to skip meet ups. It is easy but how long can you be busy for? If your SB or SD is constantly ‘busy’ with so many things and he or she doesn’t give a proper explanation on what is going on, it is the first sign of your sugar relationship ending. Perhaps boredom has come in its way, hence it may be a contributing factor in your sugar relationship ending.

Easily Angered.

This is when all the arguments come in. Little things may trigger anger emotions. SB or SD is easily angered and try to find all kinds of excuses not to meet up with each other. The interest and spark between you and your SB or SD starts to fade it is starting to feel like a nuisance having to see each other. There is a change of behaviour the way he or she is treating you.

Seeing you only when needing something.

If he or she is only seeing you for money, then it is a red flag. Nothing else, just money. A sugar relationship is a mutually beneficial relationship, hence if one is only receiving a benefit, you know what to do. Leave.

Lesser Allowances or none at all.

For a SB, allowance is crucial. If a SD cuts the SB’s allowance without talking to him or her prior hand, then it is another red flag sign. If there is a need to lessen or reduce the allowance of the SB, then SDs should have a conversation beforehand in order to not make things awkward.

These are the signs to pay good attention to know that your sugar relationship is ending. Remember, to end a sugar relationship, be wise and be mature. When it is time to walk away, walk away. The benefits have been reaped, move on. 🙂

2017 Sugar Resolutions

#1 Pay off my student debt of $6,000

#2 Get daddy to buy me a cute red car to ‘travel’ to his place

#3 Save $20,000 by the end of the year

#4 A wardrobe of Make Up

#5 Have multiple Daddy(s) fund for my trips to Europe

#6 Get daddy to fund my degree in Arts

#7 Learn a new language. $$ language

#8 Designer clothes ONLY in my wardrobe.

#9 New exotic perfumes every month.

#10 Buy my own apartment by the end of the year.

Sugar Facts

#1 There are many fake profiles in sugar dating sites. Some are just there to explore; some are just there for fun. They steal other people’s pictures and put them as their own. Sometimes you need to take more time to research on your POT if he’s a real person.

#2 Most men in sugar websites are probably not multi-millionaires. Well, what do you expect? You can’t have multi-millionaire men sitting behind the computer chatting with you, can they?

#3 Boohoo, sorry to break the news… most men in sugar websites are married.

#4 If a POT offers you a meet up of $10k + a car + apartment, it is most likely a scam. Keep in mind that, if it is too good to be true- it probably is. A good

#5 If he doesn’t or avoids talking about the money factor in a sugar relationship, he probably is a cheap daddy. At all cost, avoid!

#6 Always do a google image search of your POT just in case he’s using a famous person’s picture to pretend to be a daddy.

#7 Daddies who don’t pay for your meals or even get uncomfortable when it comes to forking the bill, they are probably just normal men pretending to be wealthy.

#8 If daddy brings you to an accommodation less than a 5* hotel, leave that cheap mofo.

#9 Never agree on unprotected intimacy, you may never know what disease he has. Protected sex should be practiced at all times.

#10 If daddy discusses on budget, just ditch him. You are not supposed to be talking about budgets. You should be only be counting the cash that he’s giving you.

Three Secrets to never hide from Daddy

Terms, conditions, and discretion is important in a sugar relationship. Although it is always wise to keep certain information to yourself, here are three secrets to never keep from your daddy.

1.Past Sugar Relationships

I think it is important to let him know if you had previous sugar relationships or not. If no, then you are all good. But if the answer is yes, then you should disclose to him that you have had sugar daddy(s) from the past. Let your daddy know how you feel about sugaring and maybe he can accommodate your likes and dislikes. There is no room for unhappiness in a sugar relationship.

2.Monogamy

Having a sugar daddy is a form of a mutual benefit, mutual arrangement for both parties. As a sugar baby, you get your finances, and as a daddy, he in return gets companionship. However, something to talk about is monogamy. It is important to talk to your sugar daddy about how you feel about monogamy. Are you allowed to have more than one sugar daddies at the same time? Or is he allowed to have more than one sugar babies at one time? Discuss what are your thoughts about monogamy.

3.Finances

Some of us are in the sugar relationship for a form of financial support from daddies. Do not keep it a secret about your needs financially. Keeping it away from him will only do you harm. Sugar daddies exist for a reason. They know that their sugar babies have come with a little intention of finance. Hence, you should always tell your daddy about what you are struggling with financially. Be honest from the beginning of the sugar relationship. If he disapproves your intention, then at least you know if from the beginning rather than in the middle of the sugar relationship. It saves time for both parties.

Discuss these key items with your daddy. You know what they say, honesty is the best policy.

Confessions of being a Sugar Baby

Collected confessions from my sugar sisters 😉

“I refuse to identify myself as a sugar baby, call me a personal therapist”.

“My boyfriend doesn’t know that I used to be a sugar baby. I don’t plan on him to know”.

“I paid for my undergrad tuition fees and living expenses. I’ve never been more proud”.

“I satisfy 2 daddies but is secretly in love with one of them. I’m afraid I will never see him again if I told him I love him”.

“Broke up with my ex and became a sugar baby. Never looked back”.

“In a relationship with a broke dude. Considering of becoming a sugar baby”.

“My boyfriend doesn’t know that I help pay off his gambling debts by becoming a sugar baby”.

“My sugar daddy is my father’s best friend”.

 “I failed as a sugar baby. I fell for my daddy but at least I get the money”.

“Everyone around me has a boyfriend but I’m not quitting the sugar life. I love the money too much”.

“I met my sugar daddy by accident. Best thing that has ever happened to me”.

“My friends think I come from a rich family. They don’t know why I’m always having dinner with my dad”.

“My family thinks I have a full-time job overseas. My boss is my daddy”.

“My daddy lasts longer than my ex-boyfriend”.

“My boyfriend doesn’t know that he is not the only one receiving my nudes”.